Making of Home: Day 1 Reflection
Naomi Loses Her Husband and Sons
1 In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab. 2 The man’s name was Elimelek, his wife’s name was Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to Moab and lived there.
3 Now Elimelek, Naomi’s husband, died, and she was left with her two sons. 4 They married Moabite women, one named Orpah and the other Ruth. After they had lived there about ten years, 5 both Mahlon and Kilion also died, and Naomi was left without her two sons and her husband.
Naomi and Ruth Return to Bethlehem
6 When Naomi heard in Moab that the Lord had come to the aid of his people by providing food for them, she and her daughters-in-law prepared to return home from there. 7 With her two daughters-in-law she left the place where she had been living and set out on the road that would take them back to the land of Judah.
8 Then Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, “Go back, each of you, to your mother’s home. May the Lord show you kindness, as you have shown kindness to your dead husbands and to me. 9 May the Lord grant that each of you will find rest in the home of another husband.”
Then she kissed them goodbye and they wept aloud 10 and said to her, “We will go back with you to your people.”
11 But Naomi said, “Return home, my daughters. Why would you come with me? Am I going to have any more sons, who could become your husbands? 12 Return home, my daughters; I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was still hope for me—even if I had a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons— 13 would you wait until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for them? No, my daughters. It is more bitter for me than for you, because the Lord’s hand has turned against me!”
14 At this they wept aloud again. Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her.
15 “Look,” said Naomi, “your sister-in-law is going back to her people and her gods. Go back with her.”
16 But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. 17 Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.” 18 When Naomi realized that Ruth was determined to go with her, she stopped urging her.
Think of people you have known, Who, like Naomi, felt that the “hand of the LORD” had gone against them. Why do you think some people feel that way while others with similar losses or difficulties do not?
Something made Ruth willing to leave her home, her family, her culture, and her religion to go with Naomi. Yet Naomi described herself as a bitter person Who felt that God had turned against her. How might you explain Ruth’s love for this bitter woman?
Imagine that you are Orpah, watching . Naomi and Ruth depart. What do you want to say to them as they leave?
When have you made a decision that required turning your back on a place or experience in your past in order to move into the future you felt God wanted for you? Were you aware at the time that you were doing something important? Is there anything that you want or need to leave behind this Christmas season?
Think of all the people around the world who are refugees, having left their homes because of hardship there. Hold these people before God and ask God to be with them.
Pray a breath prayer
Until your next reflection time, pray a breath prayer on behalf of people Who are traveling. You may mention particular people or pray a prayer such as this, “O God, be With those traveling today.”